On any given day our life can go from OK to very chaotic. Most days we don't really know how it effected us because we've been in a survival mode for quite sometime, and we've faced some difficult situations. How we reacted either made or broke us we haven't decided which it was yet. While we pick through our pieces and heal ourselves the things that stand out in our minds that have kept us sane through all of this is: We cannot make people something they aren't or used to be in the past. We can only support them for who they are right know. Even when our situations get out of control, our past doesn't define us it is just the past.

"True wisdom lies in finding out all the advantages of a situation in which we are placed in Instead of imaging the enjoyments of one in which we are not placed"